Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Two Abby Tails

Since it was a Friday night during lent, my husband and I decided to eat dinner at the Red Lobster. It was very busy. The hostess told us it would be a 45 minute wait. We decided to wait. But since we had our dog Abby in the car I went out to make sure she was comfortable. I removed her leash and fixed her dog blanket. We had our dinner which probably came to a two hour wait that Abby had in the car. It was not very cold so I was sure she was fine. She was. But after we settled in the car I noticed a paper tucked under the windshield wiper. It said
"Hello
mean parents
Arf forgot my doggy
baggy again. next time I
P on seat.
Yours unruly
underdog"


I got to thinking. I wonder how long the average dog spends in a lonely dog crate when the owners are working. Abby is never in a crate. She is included with almost everything I do. I spend a lot of time and energy with my dog. I was hurt someone would think poorly about me.

The next day I took Abby to the park. We took our usual path. But as we rounded the bend near the childrens playground a little girl started running straight toward Abby and me. Her mother tried only once yelling "Get back here" but then just stood there. At first I thought surely this little girl isn't running full speed ahead to a 90 pound German Shepherd/Saluki mix. Surely her mother wouldn't allow it. But closer and closer she got. Finally as she reached the opposite side of the sidewalk I yelled" Don't come near the dog" in a very stern voice. The little girl cocked her head to one side and asked "Whhyyyy" is a whiny tone that implied that I had a lot of nerve telling her what to do. I said "Because she is not a friendly dog." Now all this happened in a matter of seconds during which time Abby was unaware of everything and was blissfully smelling a trash can. (Yuck) But now that I was talking she became alerted to the fact that someone was there. She stared straight in the girl's face and gave a warning growl. Now for Abby that is remarkable self-control because her usual instincts are to growl, bark, show teeth, pull, and generally appear as vicious as possible. I was very proud. The little girl wasn't as impressed. Instead she raised her hands to cover her ears and began screaming in a manner that could only be compared to a scene in a horror movie. I shook my head and made a ninety degree turn across the baseball field.

I love dogs. I donate money to dog shelters. I donate money to the humane society. I would never want a dog hurt or abused. But my point to both tails about Abby are: people should mind their own business and leave other peoples dogs alone.

Tuesday, February 05, 2008

Where's the snow?

I miss snow. Even more so since my husband and I took a small vacation in Vermont. In lovely Stowe, Vermont I guess a person can always count on some snow in the winter. But here in Bucks County there hasn't been any. Farmer's almanac only predict snow showers coming up this week.



Snowy days feel so quiet and peaceful. A thick layer of snow brings a hush to the ordinarily noisy sounds of the street. The cars move at a slower pace. People stay indoors and drink hot cocoa. I need a snowy day.



So even at this late time in the season, I am still making snowflake jewelry. Maybe it will work like a good luck charm. Or maybe this will be the only snowflake I see this winter.